Dear Adviser
by The Canadian Pie Adviser
Dear Adviser,
My best friend and I just got into a really big fight. I think that it was very stupid, but she doesn’t seem to want to forgive me. All I said was that she doesn’t have a chance with this guy, and that even I might have a better chance than him. What’s up with her?
-From a Friend
Dear Friend,
I think what you said was really mean, and I know if you think about it, you’ll realize it too. If you really care about your friend, you will tell her that you are really sorry. Your friend really likes this guy, and you as her friend should support her. You really let her down by insulting her. You should try to do everything you can to make it up to her.
Dear Adviser,
I really like this person, and my friend knows about it too. Well, one of my friends danced with this person when we went roller-skating with the school. I got so mad. I don’t know if that person would ever go out with me though, because I heard that person thinks I’m "creepy." What should I do, Adviser?
-Confused
Dear Confused,
I don’t think that you should blame your friend, because it was your crush’s choice to dance with your friend. You should also remember that a dance is just a dance and it might not have meant anything to either one of them. You should talk to your crush about hoe you feel, you never know, that person might like you back. If he/she doesn’t, I think you should move on.
Dear Adviser,
I’m in love with this guy, I’ve loved him for about six months now. He is one of my best friends, I mean I’m always there for him when he has problems, and he’s the same towards me. My problem is that I can’t tell him I love him, because he has a girlfriend and I know that they love each other very much. I don’t know if I should tell him how I feel. I don’t want them to break up because of me. Please help me! I don’t know what to do.
-Lost and Alone
Dear Lost and Alone,
I think that you should only be his best friend, because that’s the safest thing to do right now. Time will tell if him and his girlfriend will stay together, and if they don’t then you can tell him. But if they stay together, don’t say anything. Because someone is going to be hurt in the end, and it’s probably going to be you. Be a friend, because love comes and goes, but friends are forever. And you will never lose him as a friend.