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Child Safety

bulletThe safety and well-being of our children and students is undoubtedly the main and most important reason for taking the time to think and talk about this subject.
bulletStudents in their pre-teens and teen years are most at-risk.  Teenage girls are especially vulnerable.  "They are at an age where they know it all and parents and teachers aren't in touch."  (March, 1998)
bulletUnless children are adequately taught the potentials risks, and sometimes even if they are, they don't believe they could be the victim.

3 Examples of how children can be victimized - taken from the: Federal Bureau of Investigation Educational Web Publication

A 37-year-old man who claimed he was a child psychologist arranged to meet a 13-year-old boy in Florida for a sexual liaison after the two met in an online chat room. But the "boy" was a woman who helped the FBI set up a sting that led to the man's arrest. The man was arrested by FBI Agents upon arriving in Miami.
A man serving time for molesting four children was indicted on charges of peddling child pornography on the Internet using a prison computer. The 57-year-old man was using the prison computer to obtain and distribute child pornography on the Internet.
FBI Agents in Newark, New Jersey arrested a man after he allegedly enticed a 13-year-old girl to mail him videos of herself without ever leaving his home. The girl was 12 when the man first made contact, posing as a 15-year-old pen pal, and exchanging e-mail on an online service. The girl sent him four video tapes. The man was arrested after the girl's mother became suspicious of the girl's activities and called the police.

Safety Tips

My Rules for Online Safety
This excerpt is taken from a brochure  written by Lawrence J. Magid, a syndicated columnist for the Los Angeles Times, who is author of Cruising Online: Larry Magid’s Guide to the New Digital Highway (Random House, 1994) and The Little PC Book (Peachpit Press, 1993).  

bulletI will not give out personal information such as my address, telephone number, parents' work address/telephone number, or the name and location of my school without my parents' or teachers' permission.
bulletI will tell my parents or teachers right away if I come across any information that makes me feel uncomfortable.
bulletI will never agree to get together with someone I "meet" online without first checking with my parents. If my parents agree to the meeting, I will be sure that it is in a public place and bring my mother or father along.
bulletI will never send a person my picture or anything else without first checking with my parents or teachers.
bulletI will not respond to any messages that are mean or in any way make me feel uncomfortable. It is not my fault if I get a message like that. If I do I will tell my parents or teachers right away so that they can contact the online service.
bulletI will talk with my parents and teachers so that we can set up rules for going online. We will decide upon the time of day that I can be online, the length of time I can be online, and appropriate areas for me to visit. I will not access other areas or break these rules without their permission. 
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Consider limiting your children's chat activities to monitored chats only

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Require your child to earn his/her Web License at PBS Techknow, or take the Child Find on-line safety challenge (see Safety Links)

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